Posted by
Lynn McConnell on Friday, May 23, 2008 at 2:34 PM
Categories:
Talent Management,
Training & Team Building,
Leadership Development,
Performance
Emotional Intelligence, or EI, seems to be the topic de jour for organizational development these days. Broadly defined, EI can be defined as HOW people use the smarts they have. Peter Salovey and John D. Mayer, professors from Yale University and the University of New Hampshire, defined emotional intelligence as “the ability to monitor one's own and others' feelings, to discriminate among them, and to use this information to guide one's thinking and actions.”
EI comprises four main areas:
- Self-awareness, or the ability to understand emotions and recognize how they affect oneself and other people.
- Self-management, or the ability to control one's emotions and impulses. Other attributes of self-management include trustworthiness, conscientiousness and adaptability.
- Social awareness, or the ability to be aware of others' feelings, needs and concerns. Key attributes of social awareness are empathy, service orientation and organizational awareness.
- Relationship management builds on the first three areas: communication, conflict management and the ability to influence others through inspirational leadership.
Why is this important?
Leaders set the emotional tone of an organization. Studies show that teams and individuals tend to be more creative problems solvers who adapt a win-win attitude toward conflict resolution.
We’ve all heard the phrase: “Employees don’t leave companies, they leave managers”.
In general, managers with a high emotional intelligence quotient tend to be empathetic, trustworthy, and have a knack for building relationships with others; while a manager with a low emotional intelligence quotient might be seen as critical and micro-managing.
Luckily, unlike intelligence quotients, emotional intelligence can be developed with training, feedback and coaching.
Does your organization measure and coach for emotional intelligence? If you don’t, you may be missing the boat when it comes to creating job satisfaction and developing those creative problem solvers who will become the leaders who will help your organization continue to thrive and grow!